Thursday, September 15, 2005
Expectations
When a child takes birth in a family , from the very same day his parents start expecting from him. They have a lot of expectations like he should be the best among all as they want to have the feeling of pride because of his acts. As the time passes, the child enters the school, there he has the pressure of giving his best ..........
performing at par with the best ........everytime he faces challenges. It is expected from him that he should not fail anywhere ...... irrespective of his capability with his interests at stake. Now it depends on the child what he chooses for himself. He can go with the feeling of satisfying his parents desires or to achieve what he himself aspires ........... If he accepts the first one then he has no right to question for anything but if he goes with the other, he must know and understand his responsiblities. He must be confident/strong enough to stand for his actions as well for his decisions whatever the result be ........
But what about the one who accepts everything .......... every decision related to him in any sense taken by his parents without giving a single thought to it......... wht about him????? Even after obeying the parents everytime why is he arraigned if he is unable to meet their expectations ......... expectations-- fulfilling which is beyond his imagination ......... leaving the child in a state of
great despair .........sometimes even
depression!!!!!
Posted by khushi ::
10:43 AM ::
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